Moloker.

Mar. 4th, 2026 08:42 pm
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Xerîb sent me a wonderful word, saying accurately that “It has Hattic interest in two ways.” The OED (entry revised 2002) says s.v. moloker n.:

slang. Now rare. Perhaps Obsolete.
A cheap hat, spec. a renovated silk hat.

1890 Molocher, a cheap hat.
A. Barrère & C. G. Leland, Dictionary of Slang vol. II. 60/1

1893 A good Molocker (Molocker, it appears, is the trade term for renovated old chapeaux).
Westminster Gazette 18 July 3/3
[…]

1906 The man who takes your [old silk] hat away from your door sells it to a wholesale dealer in old hats, who promptly converts it into a ‘myloker’, or a hat for the second-hand market.
Tit-Bits 21 April 120/1

There’s also a verb, ‘To renovate (a silk hat),’ qualified as Obsolete. rare, with a single citation:

1863 ‘Tis like an old hat that has been ‘molokered’, or ironed and greased into a simulacrum of its pristine freshness.
G. A. Sala, Breakfast in Bed v. 105

The etymology is “< Yiddish melokhe handicraft, craft, trade < Hebrew mĕlā’ḵāh work, occupation.” Xerîb kindly provided some additional links, including the Jewish English Lexicon entry for melacha ‘Work or actions forbidden on Shabbat or Yom Tov; often refers to creative work or the use of electronics; Work in general,’ with a set of Example Sentences (“I couldn’t start fixing the chair, because that would be melacha”), the Green’s Dictionary of Slang entry, and the Internet Archive copy of Sala’s Breakfast in Bed highlighting the last citation, whose full context is worth quoting here:

The worst of the matter is, that with all your mending, restoring, and preserving labours, things wont keep as they are, and obstinately refuse to return to that which they used to be. ‘Tis like an old hat that has been “molokered,” or ironed and greased into a simulacrum of its pristine freshness; or an old coat that has been black-and-blue revivered. For a day or two all is well, and the daw may strut about in his peacock’s feathers, the envy of the entire farmyard ; but the first shower of rain washes off the fictitious gloss, and scrubs the whitening off the sepulchre, and exposes all the senility and shabbiness of the sham.

Note that “wont” has no apostrophe; I haven’t taken the trouble to figure out if this is a consistent style in the text or just a run-of-the-mill typo. (Thanks, Xerîb!)

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Posted by Bar Mor Hazut

Who would have thought that people could get so possessive over trash cans?

The older you get, the more you realize how precious your belongings are to you. You grow up, you accumulate things, and they become irreplaceable. That is why the older we get, the more space we need; It starts with a bedroom, continues to a studio apartment, and if you're lucky, down the road, a full-blown house with enough bedrooms and closet space to safekeep everything you hold dear in your heart.

So where do trash cans go into this mix?

Well, once you reach the final level of owning a nice house in a nice neighborhood, you also become the proud owner of your own trash cans, which apparently are just as precious to some people as their childhood stuffed toy. In some neighborhoods, especially those with an HOA, each resident is responsible for their own trash cans. This means they have to ensure the cans stay presentable, that they are always in the right place at the right time, especially when trash pick up is nearing. Every slight misstep regarding these rules can lead to a fine, and a very stern disipline hearding from the HOA, and no one wishes to experience that.

This leads people to guard their trash cans like their lives depend on it.

When the neighbor below decided to claim a resident's trash can as his own, it immediately led to a confrontation. While the neighbor claimed the cans are communal property, the resident knew that they are the only ones responsible for these specific trash cans, which even had their address painted on them. This led the resident to report the neighbor's behavior to the HOA, to ensure they put a stop to the neighbor's unneighborly behavior.

Unfortunately, even though the HOA got involved in this dispute, it did not end there. The neighbor continues to play tag with the trash can and ignores each and every one of the neighborhood rules. What can put a stop to him? Keep scrolling to read the full story…

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Posted by Remy Millisky

This manager is buying his employee's loyalty, and it's clearly benefitting everyone. 

A great manager has enough faith in their employees that they can avoid micromanaging. Only a supervisor who doubts their employees' talents ends up micromanaging them, and it almost always brings about poor results. They become the type of manager who never lets their team go un-active on Teams, or who wants to be notified every time they use the restroom or take a snack break. It's inundating the manager with meaningless messages, all while treating the employees like children. 

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Mar. 4th, 2026 04:55 pm
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A Grape Injustice

Mar. 4th, 2026 08:00 pm
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Creator reveals

Mar. 4th, 2026 03:45 pm
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Creators have now been revealed! You can find the whole collection here. Enjoy!

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Mar. 4th, 2026 03:01 pm
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I heard the terrible news about [personal profile] minoanmiss last night, and I want to punch entropy in its face about it. But entropy doesn’t have a face, so we’re all kinda screwed. My heart goes out to her wonderful loved ones, and to the neighbors who her life had touched for the better. I hope she gets to donate her organs to others to live on, especially as doing so will hopefully piss off her parents (who richly deserve such) one last time.


I have been orbitally bombarding the ulcer with famotidine, Omeprazole, and trying to let go of stress once an hour. It seems to be doing some good? And I found some perfume samples on clearance from the December holidays at CVS, so I am also scent stimming intermittently.

I have a tiny, mild headache right now, so I’m studying for the jurisprudence exam and getting ready to take the test and do taxes tomorrow.
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It's a busy month for Google. The company released its latest phone, the Pixel 10a; rolled out live location sharing in Google Messages, launched Nano Banana 2, and issued a security update that patches 129 Android vulnerabilities. Now, the company is launching its latest Pixel Drop, this time for the month of March, sporting a number of features and changes for Pixel phones and watches. Here's what's new.

Google now lets you customize your Calling Card on Android

Both iOS and Android now have full screen contact pages that appear when people call you, but both platforms have handled this differently. When iOS rolled it out, it let you customize how your "Contact Poster" appeared when you called people. But Android, on the other hand, decided you should control how other people's "Calling Cards" appeared when they called you. Now, Android is changing things to match iOS' approach. The latest Pixel Drop now lets you customize your own personal Calling Card.

Airlines can soon help you find your lost luggage

Here's another Android feature picked up from Apple: If you have a Find Hub tracker, you can share its whereabouts with airlines to help you locate lost luggage. At this time, only 10 airlines in the world are compatible with this sharing feature, so it's a bit more limited than Apple's integration, but hopefully that list grows soon.

The "Now Playing" widget now has an app

Pixel users love the Now Playing widget. It can passively identify songs in the wild, all without needing the internet to do so. With the March Pixel Drop, the widget now gets its own app. Once you install the app on your Pixel, you'll find the widget's history transfers over seamlessly, so you can see all the songs it has identified.

Gemini can handle tasks on your behalf

The current obsession in the AI world is turning passive assistants in agentic assistants. Or, in other words, asking AI bots to run tasks on our behalf. Google says that Gemini can now do that, as a beta feature in the Gemini app. You can long press the power button and ask Gemini to do things for you, like plan your grocery list, book an Uber, or order your usual takeout. This is currently only available on the Pixel 10 series.

Circle to Search now identifies whole outfits

Circle to Search lets you, well, circle to search. When you see something on your phone, you can simply draw a circle around it to look it up. It's a pretty intuitive feature, that gets a bit of an upgrade with the latest Pixel drop. Now, Google says you can circle outfits you see on your Pixel 10 to find "every piece of the look." Say you're watching a movie, and you like a character's style. You can use Circle to Search to circle the outfit, and Google will break up each piece into a "Find the look" search. You could see how much coats, shoes, hats, and more cost individually, and decide to buy some or all of the outfit. Google didn't miss the opportunity to connect this to its "Try It On" feature, which lets you virtually try outfits online.

Magic Cue can recommend restaurants with Gemini

Magic Cue is a contextual AI feature that offers suggestions based on what you're doing on your Pixel. For example, as part of this Pixel Drop, Magic Cue can now recommend restaurants based on conversations with friends. If a contact suggests finding a restaurant downtown that offers vegan options, Magic Cue may offer a "Find restaurants" pop-up. Tap it, and Gemini will offers a few options that match those descriptions. (Of course, this is generative AI, so the feature could get some of the suggestions wrong, or potentially make up restaurants entirely.)

At a Glance gets some new updates

The Pixel's "At a Glance" feature is getting some new data points to keep track of. Google says that At a Glance can now tell you your best route home—taking into account transit delays—follow sports scores, and give updates on your financial portfolio. These updates appear passively on the home screen, so you don't need to unlock your phone to check on these data points.

Google is bringing AI art styles to the home screen

Android has always made it easy to customize the style of your home screen, including, notably, your app icons. But the latest Pixel Drop adds five new AI-generated art styles to generate custom icons from. Google says these options can help make your home screen more like "you," but perhaps that won't apply if you're not a fan of AI art.

Your Pixel Watch can now warn if you walk away from your phone

If you have both a Pixel phone and a Pixel Watch, your wearable can warn you when you leave your phone behind. Google says you'll get an "instant alert" if you walk away from your phone, and your phone will lock as soon as you're out of range. (Google doesn't specify, but I assume this is Bluetooth range, which is typically 30 feet.) This feature is available on Pixel 8 and newer, as well as Pixel Watch 2 and newer.

Pixel gets a desktop mode

Smartphones are basically mini computers these days, so why shouldn't your phone turn into a desktop PC? Google is rolling out such a feature with this Pixel Drop, letting users connect their Pixel 8 or newer to an external monitor. You're still running Android, but the feature lets you run multiple apps side-by-side, like a traditional computer experience. It follows a similar feature from Samsung (DeX) which the company has offered for years. What's more, if you have a Pixel tablet, you can now run multiple apps in free-form windows, similar to how Apple handles window management in iPadOS.

Connect your camera to your Pixel phone

Pixels have been known for their cameras for years. But Google's latest Pixel Drop actually lets you connect an external camera to your Pixel, so you can get different angles for live streaming.

These are the smaller changes in the latest Pixel Drop

Google added a lot of changes to this Pixel Drop, some smaller than others. For example, a new display color filtering mode softens "high-intensity" hues and saturated colors, if you want a more muted look. Guided Frame, Android's feature that guides users through taking photos, now has more languages, making it more accessible. The Journal app also has new AI features to make it easier to jot down your feelings and experiences. Pixel Watch 3 will also get the Pixel Watch 4's one-handed gestures, which will let you double pinch or turn your wrist to take actions like answering calls and pausing music.

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Posted by Justin Pot

One of the nicest things about Apple software, at least in theory, is its uncluttered design. That's why many users (myself included) were annoyed when Safari's Compact Tabs feature was dropped in macOS 26 or iPadOS 26. It was a great way to neaten up your browser bar, and people have been complaining about the missing feature ever since.

Happily, the complainers now have something to look forward to, as the upcoming ‌macOS Tahoe‌ 26.4 and iPadOS 26.4 releases will bring back the Compact Tab option, according to MacRumors. Their reporting shows a screenshot of the Safari settings on macOS, with "Separate" and "Compact" tab style both on offer.

Why I love Compact Tabs

Here's why I'm jazzed about this feature's return: Your browser's tab bar, by default, sits right below the main toolbar (which contains your address bar as well as forward/back buttons and new tab buttons). Compact Tabs moves the tabs into the address bar, a space that is otherwise mostly blank. This cuts the amount of occupied space taken at the top of the browser in half. This isn't a feature for everyone—people who routinely keep dozens of tabs open tend to like having more space to see which tab is which. But for those of us who like to keep things clean (like me) Compact Tabs was perfect.

And it will be perfect again. Apple hasn't announced when the 26.4 update will ship to all macOS and iPadOS users, but based on based release cycles, it's likely to come out in the next month or so. ANd if you don't want to wait, you can try out the 26.4 beta now.

The macOS settings app, opened to the updates screen. The beta option is highlighted with an orange box.
Credit: Justin Pot

The serious caveat here is that beta versions of software are, by definition, less stable than the release version, meaning you may have to put up with a few bugs that will annoy you or (at worst) leave your computer unusable.

All that aside, if you want to jump in, open System Settings on your device and head to General > Software Update. From here turn on beta updates—you should then be offered a beta version of 26.4. I don't generally recommend risking using a beta operating system for a minor quality of life improvement (even though there are other cool features coming), but the full version shouldn't be long in coming.

What I'm Doing Wednesday

Mar. 4th, 2026 01:54 pm
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My heart is broken by the terrible loss of [personal profile] minoanmiss. I met her in fandom in my early DCU days, something like 23 years ago, and once in person in 2009, and always treasured her friendship. Rest in peace and power, love. Hugs to all who grieve her passing.

books by Adrian Tchaikovsky
House of Open Wounds, Lives of Bitter Rain, Days of Shattered Faith, Pretenders to the Throne of God
I don't think I LIKED any of these, but the 'verse is interesting? I get the feeling that he cares far more about gaming out his worldbuilding than he does his actual characters, which is no way to write a novel/series.

yarning
Finished the orange and blue kickbunny. Missed yarn group yet again. Started the Easter carrots. Worked a little on the kickbunny for the kitten academy momcat. The long term commission for 2 kickbunnies turned into a priority commission, so I'm rapidly working on that instead of more carrots. Sold an under the door toy. And 2 more catnip-silvervine hearts that I have to make. Oof! I'm grateful for the sales, but wtf is going on with the deluge? I mean, SEVENTEEN things to make!! Most ASAP!

augh
dad had yet another bad fall Monday night, but, knock wood, I haven't yet been asked to go up and help out. These deadlines make that problematic.

healthcrap
General malaise. Epic brain fog. Continuing vertigo. The internet tells me that a repeatedly bitten tongue can develop white keratosis (like your fingernails) to protect it. I keep biting the wound, which is why I still have an ulcer just under my tongue, way back by my molars. /whine. Also, I didn't get my healthcare coverage renewed before it expired, so I'm having to wrangle that while feeling like crap. :(

#resist
+ voted in the TX primary yesterday. Learned I was gerrymandered into a new congressional district minutes before voting, so I had to choose a new rep.
+ Look out for local anti-war protests in your area.
+ March 5: Fighting and Winning Against Trump's Concentration Camps - Mass Call
+ March 28: #50501 No Kings Protest #3

I hope you're all doing as well as can be expected. <333
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Posted by Ask a Manager

A reader writes:

My fully remote company just announced that our mandatory, weekly, hour-long, all-staff Zoom meeting will now be required to be camera on and mic on for all 60+ attendees. It seems like they’re trying to recreate the feeling of us all being in person. However, to me, and to I imagine a lot of people, the new requirements sound like literal torture.

This seems like a perfect “push back as a group” situation … but I don’t know how to do that in a remote setting. While I suspect my manager would also find this new requirement bonkers, I’m not so sure about his boss. I’m mostly an independent contributor, so I don’t have much incidental interaction with other people in the company.

What can I do here? Reach out to a handful of individuals on Slack to see if others think this is as insane as it seems to me? Then what? Write a group Slack message to the meeting leader (the CEO) saying, “I understand you want the company to feel closer, but we are not doing this”? In an in-person setting, I could have a bunch of low-key “this is nuts, right?” conversations with coworkers in the break room or hallways, but without that kind of casual interaction, I’m not sure how to get a group together to push back.

I don’t think cameras on for one hour-long meeting a week is outrageous, and if you frame it to people as anything in the neighborhood of “literal torture” you’re likely to lose a lot of credibility.

Requiring 60+ people have mics on is bizarre. But that part is likely to be rescinded pretty quickly because that much background noise (as well as sipping drinks, clearing throats, etc.) is going to be chaos with so many people.

We can talk about how to generate support for pushing back as a group when you’re remote, but I don’t think this is the issue to organize around.

As for how you’d do it on something else, though:

* Ideally, before you ever need to push back as a group, you’ve put some energy into forming relationships with your coworkers. You don’t have to do that — if you haven’t, you can still raise the topic when you’re talking to someone about something work-related — but it’s a lot easier if you’ve laid that groundwork first.

* Then, when you’re talking to people, you bring up the issue that’s bothering you: “What do you think about X? I’m worried because of Y.” You feel them out and if they sound like they share your concern, you can say, “I might talk to a few others and see if other people have these concerns. If they do, maybe we can talk about it with Manager.” From there, you’d follow the rest of the advice in this post about speaking up as a group — meaning that you could decide to raise it at a team meeting and have multiple people chime in, or you could ask your boss for a group meeting specifically to talk through questions people have, or you could decide that you’ll each bring it up individually with your manager. (But as discussed in that post, it usually does not make sense for one spokesperson to raise it on everyone else’s behalf. That’s likely to be less effective, and you might find others don’t then back you up as staunchly as they let you believe they would.)

* Sometimes, too, you can just speak up in a meeting where the topic is already getting discussed. For example: “I’m thinking about X — does anyone worry about how that will affect Y?” That’s a really low-key way to do it. You’re not showing up guns blazing, just raising a potential work problem and waiting to see if others join in on your concerns.

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Posted by Ben Weiss

Sometimes, the people you think are out to get you are actually the ones you want to have by your side.

This homeowner assumed that their 60-year-old neighbor, Ron, was a cranky curmudgeon because, well, he very much fit the caricature of that type. But it turns out that the homeowner was fully projecting an image of who Ron might be based on media depictions of the nosy old guys next door. Instead, he ended up being incredibly grateful to have someone like Ron watching the neighborhood like a hawk.

Books read, January-February 2026

Mar. 4th, 2026 07:32 pm
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Beastly: An Anthology of Shapeshifting Fairy Tales, ed. Jennifer Pullen. Sent to me for blurbing purposes. This is a cross-section of fourteen largely (though not exclusively) European tales themed around the "beast bride or bridegroom" motif, some of them very well known -- "Beauty and the Beast," of course -- and others more obscure. But Pullen casts a fairly wide net, such that transformations in general wind up here, e.g. with "The Little Mermaid" making an appearance. Each comes with some introductory context from Pullen as well as footnotes throughout, many of which are overtly more about her personal thoughts on the tales than academic analysis. On the whole, I'd say this is very approachable for a layperson.

A Thousand Li: The Fourth Fall, Tao Wong.
A Thousand Li: The Fourth Wall, Tao Wong. These two were actually separated by the following title, but I might as well talk about them together. Normally I make a point of spacing out my reading of a series -- especially a long series -- because I've realized that otherwise I tend to overdose and stop enjoying them quite so much. Since these are the final two books, however, I said "screw it" and read them very nearly back to back.

(. . . mostly the final two books. They conclude their series, but Wong has begun a sequel series. Which, ironically, is even more on point for the genre research impulse that led me to pick up A Thousand Li, so I guess I'll be reading those as well?)

I do appreciate how Wong maneuvers in the back half of this series to change up exactly what kind of scenario and challenges his protagonist is facing. In The Fourth Fall, it's international diplomacy: Wu Ying has to accompany a delegation to first secure an alliance and then attempt to negotiate an end to the ongoing war with a rival land. Since Wu Ying is not a great diplomat, this is definitely a challenge, but also he's not at the forefront of it, so he feels a bit peripheral at points. On the other hand, when things (inevitably) blow up into a climactic battle, there's a delightful "when life hands you lemons, make lemonade bombs to throw at your enemy" bit of tactics, which sets the stage for the final book.

As for the final book . . . I very much liked the beginning of it, which addressed the fallout from before (including with some good pov from the secondary characters), and the ending of it, which leaned into the philosophical elements I've always found to be one of the stronger parts of this series. The middle, however, felt a bit like it was there to keep the beginning and the ending from bumping into one another. It wasn't bad, but it felt less like vital connective tissue and more like "let's put some obstacles in the way of the conclusion."

I should note, btw, that apparently this series will be getting a trad-pub re-release. I'll be interested to take a look at the first book, because I'm curious whether it's just getting repackaged, or whether it will have gotten a thorough editing scrub first. I stuck it out for all twelve books first because it was a useful tour of the cultivation genre, then because it manages some genuinely good moments of genre philosophy along the way, but . . . well, the writing has always fallen victim to the self-pub trap of reading like it was pounded out very fast with essentially no time for revision. (I think it was the eleventh book that used the word "stymie" over and over again, sometimes where that was not actually what the word means, and in at least one place, misspelled.) I'm hoping the trad pub version will polish that up, and maybe also address the less-than-stellar handling of female characters early on -- which, I'm glad to say, improved as the series went along.

When the Tiger Came Down the Mountain, Nghi Vo. Novellas are interesting because sometimes they read like short novels, and sometimes they read like long short stories. This is the latter type, with the plot essentially consisting of "Chih and companions get cornered by talking tigers who want to eat them; Chih stalls for time by telling a story, during which the tigers argue with how they're telling it." The tension with the tigers was excellently done, as was all the arguing, but the result did feel a little slight for what I was expecting from a novella.

Mythopedia: A Brief Compendium of Natural History Lore, Adrienne Mayor. This is specifically a book about geomythology, a term for which -- as with Pullen above -- Mayor takes a broad definition. Sometimes it's "here's a story about these offshore rocks that clearly sounds like a mythologized record of the tsunami that likely put them there," and sometimes it's "here's a famous tree; now we'll talk about the lore surrounding that type of tree." Interesting fodder if you're the kind of person who finds such tidbits suggestive of stories!

Ausias March: Selected Poems, ed. and trans. Arthur Terry. Read because March is possibly the most famous Valencian poet ever, so this was research for the Sea Beyond. I have no problem with Terry choosing to translate March's work as prose, because I understand the very great challenges inherent in trying to balance the demands of meaning and style while also making it work as poetry. However, Terry has a comment toward the end of his introduction about how he makes no pretense regarding the aesthetic merit of his translations, and boy howdy is there none. This is the kind of "just the facts, ma'am" translation that's useful for being able to look at the original text on the facing page and see how they line up . . . but it made for stultifyingly boring reading, and in no way, shape, or form helped sell you on March being a great poet.

Pride and Prejudice, Jane Austen. Would you believe I never read this before now? We read Emma in high school, but that's it for me and Austen on the page. A friend linked to an interview with Colin Firth, though, which made me want to re-watch the A&E miniseries, and then for comparison I watched the more recent film adaptation, and after that I thought, hey, maybe I should read the book while those are fresh in my mind!

And, well, surprise surprise, it is very good. I know the A&E miniseries well enough that naturally I envisioned and heard all the characters as those versions, but that was in no way jarring, because it's such a faithful adaptation. It was delightful to see the bits that didn't make it onto the screen, though, like Elizabeth opining on the power of one good sonnet to kill off a love affair.

Star*Line 49.1, ed. John Reinhart. I am technically in this, insofar as there's an interview with me. Otherwise, quite a lot of SF/F poetry packed into a tidy little volume.

You Dreamed of Empires, Álvaro Enrigue, trans. Natasha Wimmer. This novel is bonkers. It's about Cortés in Tenochtitlan, and about how Moctezuma and the people around him responded to that, but it's got the kind of meta voice that feels free to wander omnisciently around and also to comment from a modern perspective, like when it explains the difference between Nahua and Colhua and Mexica and why some Europeans in the nineteenth century looked at that tangle and said "fuck it, we're just gonna call them all Aztecs." And then it goes trippy alternate history on top of all that.

Literally trippy, because a lot here hinges on the use of indigenous hallucinogens. I don't know this history well enough to tell if Enrigue is really playing up just how stoned Moctezuma in particular was, but here it's very much presented as part of the political turmoil in Tenochtitlan, with the huey tlahtoāni retreating into drugs rather than dealing with the problems around him. But don't worry, this book is here to show you the ugly underbelly of both sides of the conflict -- and also things that aren't the ugly underbelly; I very much appreciated how much time (in a relatively slender novel) is spent on exploring the agency and complicated dynamics of the various people involved, so you understand at least one interpretation of why Cortés was allowed to get far enough in to do what he did, and what different individuals thought they might gain from it.

If I have one objection, it's that Enrigue gives a strong impression that most of his key indigenous characters didn't really believe in their own religion, just went along with it because of tradition and social pressure. That's an angle I always side-eye, because it generally feels like modern mentalities failing to understand those of the past. But it's a small quibble for a book I very much enjoyed.

The Alchemy of Stars: Rhysling Award Winners Showcase, ed. Roger Dutcher and Mike Allen. This anthology collected the short and long form winners of the Rhysling Award (the biggest SFF poetry award) up through 2004. What's interesting about that is how it lets you see the trends come and go: there's a stretch of time where a lot of the poetry was very science-y (sometimes more that than science fiction-y), or the bit in the early 2000s which I can best sum up as "my kind of thing." I did skip a few that just got too experimental and weird for me to get anything out of them, but otherwise, good cross-section.

Women of the Fairy Tale Resistance: The Forgotten Founding Mothers of the Fairy Tale and the Stories That They Spun, Jane Harrington, ill. Khoa Le. This is about the French salon writers of the late seventeenth century, Madame d'Aulnoy and her ilk -- emphasis on "her ilk," because half the point of this book is to talk about the ones who aren't as famous. Harrington's general thesis here is that the fairy tales they wrote were their way of expressing the troubles they faced and/or imagining better worlds, e.g. where women could choose the husbands they wanted. Each chapter gives a short biography of one of the writers, including connecting her to the others who were perhaps relatives or friends, then retells one or more of their stories.

I did like getting to read tales less familiar than "The White Cat" (which also shows up in Pullen's book), but I wish Harrington had gone more for translation than retelling, or at least had tried to adhere to a more period tone. I feel like her "yay early feminism, so relatable" mission statement led her to modernize the language more than I would have preferred, and in the cases of the stories I don't already know, that leads me to question whether the plots have also been presented in a more "updated" fashion. And while she does have an extensive bibliography at the end, the way she talks about "rescuing" these writers from obscurity does give a self-aggrandizing whiff to the whole thing, as if Harrington is the first person to pay attention to this topic. Wound up feeling like a bit of a mixed bag.

The Ode Less Travelled: Unlocking the Poet Within, Stephen Fry. Yes, that Stephen Fry, the actor. Didn't know he wrote poetry? That's because he writes it purely for his own enjoyment, not for publication. (He mentions toward the end of the book that, among other things, he knows his celebrity status would warp how those poems are received, and he'd rather just not deal with that.)

His comedic skills shine through here, as this is a highly readable introduction to formal poetry -- meaning not "poetry always about serious subjects," but "poetry that adheres to a particular form." The introduction is not shallow, though: when he leads you by the hand through meter, he doesn't stop at showing you the different feet and explaining how to count them. Instead he talks about things like the different ways you can futz around with iambic pentameter, where a trochaic substitution will sound okay vs. weird, and what effect it has if you put a pyrrhic substitution in the third foot vs. the fourth. (Though right after reading this, I came across a blog post that characterized what Fry considers a pyrrhic substitution very differently: same phenomenon in the end, but a good demonstration of how there's no One True Answer for a lot of this stuff.)

Be warned that this book is unabashedly opinionated. Fry says there are free verse poems he likes, but on the whole he has a very poor opinion of modern poetry being just about the only art where people are told "Don't worry about rules or technique! All that matters is that you ~*express yourself*~!" He thinks that acquiring a solid handle on meter and rhyme is equivalent to a visual artist learning the rules of perspective: they're vital skills even if you wind up breaking those rules later. When he gets to the section discussing particular forms, he's also unafraid to bag on the ones he doesn't think very highly of -- mostly modern syllable-counting forms like the tetractys or nonet, but also elaborate stunts like the sonnet redoublé, where you'd better be damn good at what you're doing for it to seem like anything more than a stupid flex.

The guidance, though, is very thorough and I think very accessible -- though admittedly I come at this as someone who's never had trouble figuring out how meter or rhyme work, so I'm not the best judge of that. He gives copious examples from literature, and also practice exercises for which he provides his own demonstrations: the exception to him not making his poetry public, but only a quasi-exception, because he says outright that these are pieces meant to practice the basic skills, with no expectation of them turning out good. And that is useful in its own way, because it helps chip away at the notion that poetry is some mystical, elevated thing, rather than an art whose basics you can drill without worrying about whether you've produced immortal verse.

Highly recommended for anybody who would like a solid entry point into writing poetry!

(originally posted at Swan Tower: https://is.gd/VdjDrK)

See you in a year!!

Mar. 4th, 2026 11:21 am
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Yes. It's true. By the time I got Biggie into the carrier - he would NOT go into the smaller one and I had to chase him around the room for 5 minutes before he would go into the smaller one and he was so pissed. I knew then, that it was The Last Trip. But, the tests all came back fine! No bladder rocks. No chrystals. No nuthin!

She even gave him his vaccines early so we don't have to go back until March 2027.

On the down side, it means no more cry kibble and no more treats ever. Just prescription canned food. Chewy will be Happy. And she doubled up the size of the one medicine so now instead of 4 tablets a day, he only gets 2.

So... pretty much a Vet Victory. I did forget to have them trim his nails - I mean as long as he was pissed off anyway, but oh well.

What We Can Be

Mar. 4th, 2026 03:23 am
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Posted by Becca Morse

In a tunnel-like passageway, three women of different ethnicities are walking away from the camera, holding hands with their arms in the air. Their body language suggests joy and playfulness.

Becca Morse:

Help me to give grace when it’s needed, both to myself and to others.

Birdfeeding

Mar. 4th, 2026 01:13 pm
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Today is cloudy, cool, and damp. Yesterday it rained on and off all day, then stormed in the evening. As everything is still soaked, I gather that the intermittent rain has continued, and indeed there are chances of rain for the next several days.

I fed the birds. I've seen a small flock of sparrows and several house finches. I heard a killdeer calling in the fields but didn't see it.

I put out water for the birds.

EDIT 3/4/26 -- I did a bit of work around the patio.

I put out a fresh cake of peanut suet.

It's raining again. I'm hearing faint rumbles of thunder in the distance. It's supposed to storm again tonight.








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Posted by Jesse Kessenheimer

Risky siblings feel entitled to the responsible sibling's safety net. What's yours is mine, right?

Behind every sister relationship lies a lifetime of measuring which bowl of ice cream is slightly smaller and juggling blouses back and forth between closets. Although sisterly relationships vary, there's usually a common thread of responsibility imbalances, often leading to disputes and familial clashes of biblical proportions. In this case, the younger sister always played it safe, working hard at unglamorous jobs to earn a life of stability and comfort. The older sister, in contrast, was reckless and flippant. 

You can probably guess where this drama goes, but when the prodigal sister returned to the family fold, it was the responsible youngest who was expected to absorb the fallout. Well, not this time, sis. It's time to face the music. 

Bundle of Holding: Ninja Crusade

Mar. 4th, 2026 01:59 pm
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This new Ninja Crusade Bundle presents The Ninja Crusade, the tabletop fantasy roleplaying game from Third Eye Games of ninja, conspiracies, and martial arts.

Bundle of Holding: Ninja Crusade

Treats have been revealed!

Mar. 4th, 2026 01:54 pm
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Which means the entire collection is now available for your enjoyment, right here! Author reveals will be later tonight.

The Big Idea: Lauren C. Teffeau

Mar. 4th, 2026 06:09 pm
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Futuristic fiction doesn’t always have to be dystopian, and in fact author Lauren C. Teffau wanted to show readers a more hopeful narrative where people work together for the betterment of the planet and a goal of reaching a brighter future. Follow along in her Big Idea for Accelerated Growth Environment and see what a more optimistic future could look like.

LAUREN C. TEFFEAU:

We are living at the intersection of competing futures. Ones we thought were inevitable and others being forced down our throats by billionaires, technocrats, and foreign interests that are counter to our own. This fight over our collective future is happening while the climate crisis rages on, institutions are tested, and the informationsphere weaponized. It’s no longer a question of how to avoid the worst outcomes, but how bad those outcomes will be. 

But I firmly believe optimistic stories about the future are our way out of the doomloop. Not because they’ll accurately predict what is to come, but because they give us something to work toward, together. To that end, I wanted to explore what an international response to the climate crisis would look like in my latest book, the eco-thriller Accelerated Growth Environment, and introduce a generation of readers to one possible future full of cooperation, resilience, and competency porn. 

Such a goal is not completely out there. Once upon a time, the world came together to reduce ozone emissions in response to the discovery chlorofluorocarbons were punching a hole in the atmosphere. The effort was so successful, the ozone layer is on track to completely regenerate, according to Wikipedia, by 2045. That’s amazing, even moreso considering that level of international coordination seems impossible today. But maybe, just maybe, it’s something we can work toward in the years to come. 

So imagine things change, and the political will is finally ascendant to tackle the climate crisis. Enter the Climasphere, a groundbreaking megastructure that can support nearly every biome on Earth and grow plants essential to rewilding efforts across the world, signifying a new era of climate cooperation. It’s also the high-tech setting for Accelerated Growth Environment. Principal Scientist Dr. Jorna Beckham just wants to focus on her research while her horticulture techs are on break following the grueling inaugural harvest.

She manages the habitat with the help of her trusty robot sidekick Savvy while Commander Kaysar sees to everything else. But when an explosion rocks the Climasphere, Jorna is the commander’s number one suspect. Her family belongs to a technology-adverse religion that believes the Climasphere’s genetically-altered plants are a rejection of God’s gifts to humanity. Jorna must clear her name if she wants to keep her dream job and any possibility of a future with the commander.

I’m honored Accelerated Growth Environment is the first acquisition and release from Shiraki Press, a new publisher specializing in hopepunk stories for a brighter future. Keep an eye out for more titles from them in the months to come. 

And never forget we are capable of great things—we need to be. No matter all that has happened this year as we grapple with betrayals of the past and the predatory power grabs of the present, we must remember all the amazing things we can do in preparation of the future we will build together.


Accelerated Growth Environment: Amazon|Barnes & Noble|Bookshop|Shiraki Press 

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Read The Best Offense Against The Offended

Customer: "That film is obscene! It's full of filthy jokes about flatulence and defecation!"
Manager: "Yes, ma'am. That movie is rated PG-13, and one of the reasons is for 'crude humor'."
Customer: "That's my point! Teenagers can watch that! My teenage boys could see it!"

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Posted by Emily Long

Android users will soon be able to use tracking devices to coordinate lost luggage recovery directly with airlines. The feature, one of many announced as part of Google's March Pixel Drop, generates a Find Hub link for compatible trackers that can be shared with airlines to help locate bags that have gone missing transit.

Apple rolled out a similar feature for AirTags in late 2024, called Share Item Location. iOS users can temporarily share the location of a Find My accessory with their airline to help find lost luggage. It's important to note that AirTags (and other tracking tags, including those compatible with Android's Find Hub) aren't real-time trackers, as they generally rely on pinging other internet-connected devices nearby to share their whereabouts. Share Item Location for AirTags is currently supported by 36 airlines, including all major U.S. carriers.

How to use Android Find Hub to locate your lost luggage

To use this feature, you must already have a Find Hub-compatible tracker in your luggage. Select the tracking device in the Find Hub app, tap Share item location to generate an encrypted URL, and copy the link to paste into your airline's lost luggage claim form on its mobile app or website.

The sharing link automatically expires after seven days (during which you will have hopefully recovered your luggage), though you can stop sharing at any time. Find Hub will also disable location sharing when your Android phone detects the tracker nearby.

At this time, 10 global airlines are working with Find Hub for baggage recovery:

  • Ajet

  • Air India

  • China Airlines

  • Lufthansa

  • Austrian Airlines

  • Brussels Airlines

  • Swiss International Airlines

  • Saudia Airlines

  • Scandinavian Airlines

  • Turkish Airlines

None of the major carriers in the U.S have signed on, though Google has said it plans to partner with more airlines, including Qantas, in the future.

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Apple just announced new Mac products, and among them is a new M5 MacBook Air. As is often the case after such announcements, the previous model is starting to get some discounts: The 15-inch M4 MacBook Air with 16GB Unified Memory and 256GB SSD Storage is currently $999, a $200 discount we haven't seen since January, according to price-tracking tools. Even at full price, this M4 offers remarkable value for your money, even compared to earlier models.

Although this is the entry-level MacBook Air (albeit with a larger screen size), it comes with 16GB of RAM, twice what the previous generation's basic model came with. This is enough to take on intensive applications right now and for many years to come. It is equipped with a 15.3-inch "Liquid Retina" display with a resolution of 2,560 by 1,664, a P3 wide color gamut, and a maximum brightness of 500 nits. You'll also get an excellent backlit keyboard with Touch ID, Wi-Fi 6E support, and great speakers and microphones.

The 12MP camera comes with Center Stage, a feature that debuted on iPads and on the M4 MacBook Pro. It allows the camera to follow your face as you move around the frame during video calls. There are two Thunderbolt 4 USB-C ports, which means you can extend to up to two 6K external monitors.

For a "basic" laptop, the 15-inch M4 MacBook Air is arguably better than it needed to be, and is a much better value than the Pro, according to Lifehacker Senior Tech Editor Jake Peterson. If you factor in the discount, it really is the best MacBook for most people. If you would prefer other storage, RAM, or size models, they'll likely also go on sale soon. But if this 15-inch is the one you've been eyeing, it's a good time to snatch it up.


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The greatest regret of my life is choosing to take French in high school. Don't get me wrong, I find French beautiful, and I was a dedicated A+ student. But as an adult, I’m constantly embarrassed by how little Spanish I know.

But even in adulthood, I knew it wasn't too late for me to learn Spanish, so I did what literally everyone does: I downloaded Duolingo. It's free, popular, and has a mascot with deeply threatening energy. What's not to love?

Eventually, I reached a 300-day streak—nearly a full year of daily practice!—but when I tried to have an actual conversation in Spanish, I could not hold my own, to put it gently. I realized that Duolingo had gamified me into feeling like I was making progress, rewarding streaks and unlocking owl animations while carefully avoiding the part where I learned, you know, to speak and understand Spanish.

Duolingo is a game, but Babbel is a learning tool

With a trip to Mexico City approaching, I signed up for Babbel. I didn't expect to be fluent, but I wanted to avoid being the most helpless monolingual American on the trip. And now that I'm on the other side of that vacation, I can say with confidence that every basic phrase I successfully attempted to speak was thanks to two things: 1) Babbel's grammar lessons, and 2) the generous patience of every local willing to communicate with me.

A few months of daily Babbel lessons genuinely helped me navigate asking how much something costs, whether I could pay by card, and ordering at a restaurant. Crucially, I felt I was doing all of this not from a place of pure regurgitation, but from a place of actual language understanding. That's a different feeling entirely.

Duolingo's genius is its dopamine loop, but that's its limitation too—a sustained streak, and not language acquisition, is the real product. Where Duolingo's scenarios include sentences like "My fathers are young and pretty," (a real example!), Babbel teaches you "Could I please have the check?"

Babbel is more structured. The grammar explanations are woven directly into lessons rather than siloed in a separate section you'll never visit. The scenarios are grounded in reality. The whole thing feels less like Candy Crush and more like...a class. Which, it turns out, might be why classrooms were never designed to feel like Candy Crush.

Babbel versus Duolingo: Point by point

Here’s my breakdown of how the most important ways these apps compare.

Duolingo:

  • Free (with ads for unhinged mobile games)

  • Great for building daily habits

  • Solid vocabulary exposure

  • Gamified streaks and rewards

  • Grammar depth is limited

  • Designed to feel like progress, no matter what

Babbel:

  • Paid subscription (around $15 per month, give or take)

  • Structured, grammar-forward lessons

  • Real-world conversational scenarios

  • Cultural context built in

  • Purposeful over playful

  • Designed to build actual skills

Questions to consider before you try any language learning app

Before you start using Babbel (or flirting with the Duolingo Owl), it's important to consider your actual goals. Whether you're prepping for a trip, want to keep your brain sharp, or actually become fluent, no app comparison means anything without first understanding what you're trying to achieve.

If your goal is casual learning or building a daily habit, Duolingo is genuinely a fine place to start. It's perfectly good for vocabulary exposure and using the psychology of habit formation to keep you coming back. There's real value in that! Just don't confuse a 300-day streak with 300 days of progress.

If your goal is to actually speak another language—to survive a vacation, hold a conversation, order food with confidence—Babbel is the more honest tool. And hey, both apps use streak mechanics to use habit formation psychology, but Babbel also integrates grammar explanations into lessons, offers far more practical and applicable conversation scenarios, and wraps everything in cultural context that makes the language feel alive rather than abstract.

Any language app will have limits, but Babbel is worth the cost

A major caveat here is that no app will make you fluent. Native speakers don't speak with the crisp, patient enunciation of a language app. Real people speak quickly, use slang, have regional accents, and might not be willing to wait patiently while you search for the right vocabulary. You'll eventually hit a wall with any app.

Duolingo's perpetual free tier is likely the decision-maker for most people. You'll never be locked out of educational content for lack of a credit card. The cost of "free," though, is a parade of deeply unhinged ads for other addictive phone games. A fair trade, perhaps, depending on your tolerance for chaos.

But if you're self-motivated and serious (or even just serious enough to want to survive a vacation!), then Babbel is the structured, purposeful, real-world-ready choice. It might feel less like a game, but I suppose that's the point. When I signed up, I caught a 50% deal: $8.95/month for 12 months. Babbel also offers a one-time lifetime access payment of $299.99, though at that investment level, you might as well hire a tutor? All in all, standard month-to-month pricing hovers around $15/month.

Wednesday offers condolences

Mar. 4th, 2026 06:17 pm
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What I read

Finished A Slowly Dying Cause and she does seem to be grinding these out rather. Also I didn't actually check the details but there were some descriptive passages of places that seemed very similar, or least deploying the same epithets - 'the demilune beach' I think was one - that seemed a bit cut and paste. Also maybe more Havers, but when she finally appeared did we want that plot development??? And something entirely new (or rather, old and heritage) for Lynley to angst about.

Then read the latest Slightly Foxed.

Then onto GB Stern, The Woman in the Hall (1939), which it is longer since I last read than I thought. Still v good but not sure that I will be reccing it for the book group.

Then this already discussed - further thought that it was rather like hearing somebody tell one about book they have read - at least this bore a fairly close resemblance to the original, was not like that scene in one of E Nesbit's Bastable novels in which they talk about Charlotte Yonge's The Daisy Chain and all appear to have been reading entirely different book.... But still left a lot out.

On the go

After that I actually started Nicola Barker, TonyInterrupter (2025), Kobo deal/sortes ereader, which I was quite enjoying, and then -

Arrival of Barbara Hambly, Death at the Palace (A Silver Screen Historical Mystery Book 4) so am currently immersed in that.

Next up

And after that, imagine it will be straight on to Cat Sebastian, Star Shipped, which also published yesterday. Then maybe back to TonyInterrupter.

In Memphis, on Valentine's Day

Mar. 4th, 2026 12:22 pm
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Diameter of mental blast crater not diminished. Outside is absurdly springlike following the double-tap of winter that required me to shovel my mother's car out twice, once for the unexpected four inches of snow and then for the glacial swamp the succeeding sleet turned the driveway into. In the process I seem to have inherited the Bat, the stupidest motorcycle jacket I have met in my life. It doesn't have sleeves so much as it has patagia. It is covered with snaps that open into flaps and none of them into pockets. The total design suggests that it may be so heavily constructed because otherwise in a sufficiently stiff gust of wind its owner could achieve accidental unpowered flight. It looks like an opera cape with ambitions of fetish night. My mother insisted on it because I had run out to shovel the first time in my flannel shirtsleeves and the second time my corduroy coat was obviously not adequate to the slush-fall, but it was a present to my father from my grandparents about forty years ago and it looks functionally mint because he has spent most of that time avoiding ever wearing it. In its defense, it is extremely warm and also I look like a tire. There will be no photographs.

Their Plan Isn’t Even Half Baked

Mar. 4th, 2026 06:00 pm
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Read Their Plan Isn’t Even Half Baked

It is the day before Mother's Day. It's an hour before closing. A guy comes rushing in.
Customer: "I want a Mother's Day cake."
Me: "We have this selection left for today. We can add some custom lettering on the top if you want to personalize it."
Customer: *Looking at the four cakes we have left.* "This… is it?"

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Another RPG Bundle - Ninja Crusade

Mar. 4th, 2026 06:04 pm
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Starting in an hour,  Ninja Crusade Bundle featuring "the Third Eye Games RPG of ninja, conspiracies, and high-flying martial arts."

https://bundleofholding.com/presents/NinjaCrusade

  

The premise here looks rather a bit like last week's Mists of Akuna but without the steampunk elements, and as with that this really isn't a setting that interests me much, I'm just not knowledgeable enough about ninja and martial arts generally to be interested in running games where they're a major part of the background. Parts of it were in a 2016 bundle, and I wasn't really very interested then either. Having said that it's cheap and presentation looks OK., and they don't refer to multiple Ninja as Ninjas which is a friend's pet peeve about most games that use them...
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Breakups are miserable under the best of circumstances. But when the person you’re breaking up with is also a coworker, welcome to a new layer of hell: instead of getting distance, you still have to see each other every day, smile politely in meetings, and pretend nothing is wrong while coexisting professionally in an office that now feels charged with history.

At Slate today, I wrote about office breakups. You can read it here.

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A reader writes:

I’m a manager of a four-person team, on which I was previously an individual contributor. The four team members work in cubes in an open office area and my office is down a nearby hall. We’re a casual office, and the team generally gets along well. While each person has their own accounts and tasks, they interact with each other throughout the day, chatting and discussing work.

The issue is two members of the team, Peach and Daisy. Peach is very open with her mental health struggles and is an open book on most anything but can be emotionally volatile. Daisy, who sits next to Peach, tells me that Peach is constantly on an emotional rollercoaster. She says Peach complains often — about her life and about work. Peach is a single mom and often complains about being overwhelmed at home. She comments out loud if she’s having a bad day, doesn’t feel good, or if someone on another team annoys her. One minute she’s up and enthusiastic, and the next she is upset and complaining. In our one-on-ones, Daisy has said that she’s exhausted by the ups and downs and feels that she has to be Peach’s emotional support all day.

I have given Peach feedback in the past about keeping a positive attitude and leaving her problems at the door and as far as what I personally witness, she has improved. So the complaints from Daisy, while not completely surprising, are out of proportion to what I have observed since I don’t sit in the office with them all day.

I have encouraged Daisy to speak to Peach directly and tell her how the complaining is affecting her. I’ve suggested all three of us sitting down together so I can facilitate a conversation. Daisy has not been receptive to this but continues to complain to me.

I don’t want Daisy to be miserable but I’m unsure of the best way to tackle this. Do I sit down with Peach and discipline her in some way? Do I force Daisy to confront Peach, either with or without me? These two genuinely like each other and I’m sure we all would like to preserve the working friendship they have, but I don’t feel that I can let this go unaddressed.

I have a bunch of questions:

* Can you sit in their area for a couple of days so that you’re observing things firsthand? It sounds like you don’t think it’s as bad as Daisy is reporting, and this would give you more data to know for sure. You’d need to be open to the possibility that Peach might clean it up while you’re there — but it sounds like she might do this so reflexively that she couldn’t sustain that for a full day or two, and you could ask Daisy if her perception was different during that period.

* Can you rearrange how people are seated so that Peach is less disruptive? I’m guessing not, but you should absolutely try that if you can.

* Where are the other two team members in this? Do they disagree that Peach’s complaining is excessive? Are they not bothered because they don’t sit as close to Peach as Daisy does? Do they wear headphones so they don’t hear it? What’s their take on the situation?

* Can Daisy wear headphones at least some of the time to give herself a break?

* What exactly is Daisy hoping you’ll do? It’s worth asking her that directly. I don’t blame her for not taking you up on the facilitated conversation with you, her, and Peach — I probably wouldn’t in her shoes either — but if she’s refusing to address it with Peach herself but still complaining to you regularly, that’s not reasonable either. I’m interested in knowing exactly what she’d like you to do, and it’s worth asking her. (That doesn’t mean you should necessarily do whatever she says she wants. But you might get interesting insight from posing the question directly.)

If Peach’s complaining and emotional volatility is still excessive (which hopefully you can find out for sure with some sustained observation), you have a responsibility to the rest of the team to address it, because that’s exhausting to work around. But that’s not about disciplining her! It’s about having a discussion with her (maybe discussions, plural) where you establish better norms for working in close proximity to other people, including not dumping complaints on them or vocalizing more than occasional minor irritations. It’s appropriate for you to coach her on that as her manager, and for the sake of the rest of your team, you may have to.

One other thing: Daisy says she feels she needs to be Peach’s emotional support. That’s something you need to coach Daisy on, because the fact that she feels that way is making the problem worse. The problem is starting with Peach so you don’t want to put it all on Daisy, but Daisy needs to develop better coping strategies, which include getting comfortable with actively not being Peach’s emotional support. You probably need to coach her on specifically what that looks like, including things like not feeling obligated to respond at all when Peach is complaining.

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Title: Lucky Day
Fandom: BtVS
Author: [personal profile] badly_knitted
Characters: Buffy, OVC.
Rating: PG
Written For: Challenge 491: I Feel Lucky.
Spoilers/Setting: Somewhere around mid-season 3.
Summary: Overconfidence is a dangerous trait.
Disclaimer: I don’t own BtVS, or the characters.
A/N: Double drabble.



Lucky Day


Literally Taking Stock

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It was only when a scraping noise made me look up that I saw the pallet sliding off the shelf. I managed to push the customer to one side as the pallet hit me, knocking me out.

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Who thought that a non-profit organization would be so… ungenerous towards their own people?

What makes a workplace somewhere employees want to stay? Is it the people, the money, the benefits? Is there a secret recipe that combines a set of workplace qualities to create the perfect place to work?

Well, if you ask us, many employees would be willing to give up most qualities, even pay and benefits, if it means they get to work at a place where they feel fulfilled and appreciated. Even if their workplace is unable to give them a raise every year, or if they don't get too much PTO, they would stay for years just because they simply enjoy coming into work every single day.

However, all it takes is one action from the employer's behalf to have their employees running out the door. Like when the nonprofit organization below decided to cut a longtime employee's hours and pay to accommodate a new hire. They decided they would rather pay a new, inexperienced employee a higher salary than to preserve someone who has loyally been there for the last two years.

When the longtime employee discovered the new hire was getting paid more than they did, they immediately confronted their manager. Sadly, the manager didn't have anything beneficial to say and only claimed that there were several reasons for the pay discrepancy. The employee didn't even have to read the whole email to understand that they will not be getting any raises anytime soon.

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Snake-Eater

Snake-Eater Get Rec’d postby T. Kingfisher is $2.49! How serendipitous! This was recently featured on a of recommendations that came from a convo I had with KJ Charles.

From New York Times bestselling and Hugo Award–winning author T. Kingfisher comes an enthralling contemporary fantasy seeped in horror about a woman trying to escape her past by moving to the remote US desert—only to find herself beholden to the wrath of a vengeful god.

With only a few dollars to her name and her beloved dog Copper by her side, Selena flees her past in the city to claim her late aunt’s house in the desert town of Quartz Creek. The scorpions and spiders are better than what she left behind.

Because in Quartz Creek, there’s a strange beauty to everything, from the landscape to new friends, and more blue sky than Selena’s ever seen. But something lurks beneath the surface. Like the desert gods and spirits lingering outside Selena’s house at night, keeping watch. Mostly benevolent, says her neighbor Grandma Billy. That doesn’t ease the prickly sense that one of them watches too closely and wants something from Selena she can’t begin to imagine. And when Selena’s search for answers leads her to journal entries that her aunt left behind, she discovers a sinister truth about her new home: It’s the haunting grounds of an ancient god known simply as “Snake-Eater,” who her late aunt made a promise to that remains unfulfilled.

Snake-Eater has taken a liking to Selena, an obsession of sorts that turns sinister. And now that Selena is the new owner of his home, he’s hell-bent on collecting everything he’s owed.

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Say You’ll Remember Me

Say You’ll Remember Me by Abby Jimenez is $2.99! Jimenez’s romances really amp up the drama, so fair warning for that. I’ve also heard that there’s a lot of social media slang and pop culture references, if that happens to be a no go for you.

From the #1 New York Times bestselling author of Just for the Summer comes a playful yet deeply emotional romance where one date is all it takes for two people to know they’re perfect for each other . . . until one of them moves 2,000 miles away the next day.

There’s no such thing as a perfect guy, but Xavier Rush comes disastrously close. A gorgeous veterinarian giving Greek god vibes—all while cuddling a tiny kitten? Immediate yes. That is until Xavier opens his mouth and proves that even sculpted gods can say the absolute wrong thing. Like, really wrong. Of course, there’s nothing Samantha loves more than proving an asshole wrong . . . unless, of course, he can admit he made a mistake.

But after one incredible and seemingly endless date, Samantha is forced to admit the truth, that her family is in crisis and any kind of relationship would be impossible. Samantha begs Xavier to forget her. To remember their night together as a perfect moment, as crushing as that may be. Only no amount of distance or time is enough to forget what’s between them. And the only thing better than one single perfect memory is to make a life—and even a love—worth remembering.

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Practice Makes Perfect

Practice Makes Perfect by Sarah Adams is $1.99 ! This is a small town romance with a heroine wanting to rehab her “boring” image. I am personally not a big fan of small town romances, but I may be in the minority.

Annie Walker is on a quest to find her perfect match-someone who nicely compliments her happy, quiet life running her flower shop in Rome, Kentucky. Unfortunately, she worries her goal might be too far out of reach when she overhears her date saying she is “sounbelievably boring.” Is it too late to become flirtatious and fun like the leading ladies in her favorite romance movies? Maybe she only needs a little practice…and Annie has the perfect person in mind to become her tutor: Will Griffin.

Will–the flirtatious, tattooed, and absolutely gorgeous bodyguard–is temporarily back in Rome, providing security for Amelia Rose as excitement grows for her upcoming marriage to Noah Walker. He has one personal objective during his time in town: stay away from Annie Walker. But no sooner than he gets settled, Will soon finds himself not only breaking his rule, but tasked with far more than simply providing security.

Will wants no part in changing the sweet and lovely Annie, but he can’t bring himself to say no to her request, so he officially agrees to teach her how to be the next leading lady of Rome, Kentucky, and find the love of her life-even if he doesn’t believe in love himself. Between faking a relationship so the meddling town doesn’t catch on to what’s really happening on their practice dates, and tutoring lessons that convince Annie to add passion to her list of must-haves in a mate, it doesn’t take long for the lines of their friendship to blur…

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The Husbands

The Husbands by Holly Gramazio is $1.99! I’ve seen this one mentioned in the comments a couple times. I think this skews more toward contemporary fiction. If you’ve read it, I’d love to hear more about the romantic elements.

An exuberant debut, The Husbands delights in how do we navigate life, love, and choice in a world of never-ending options?

When Lauren returns home to her flat in London late one night, she is greeted at the door by her husband, Michael. There’s only one problem—she’s not married. She’s never seen this man before in her life. But according to her friends, her much-improved decor, and the photos on her phone, they’ve been together for years.

As Lauren tries to puzzle out how she could be married to someone she can’t remember meeting, Michael goes to the attic to change a lightbulb and abruptly disappears. In his place, a new man emerges, and a new, slightly altered life re-forms around her. Realizing that her attic is creating an infinite supply of husbands, Lauren confronts the question: If swapping lives is as easy as changing a lightbulb, how do you know you’ve taken the right path? When do you stop trying to do better and start actually living?

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The Coming Invasion of Iran

Mar. 4th, 2026 11:37 am
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Days after the United States and Israel killed Iran’s leader, the war is set to enter a dramatic new phase. Thousands of Iranian Kurdish militants are gathering in Iraqi Kurdistan, set to receive American and Israeli financial and military support to launch a major attack on Iranian territory, according to several people with close knowledge of the plan. Other armed militants, such as the Mojahedin-e-Khalq (MEK), an exiled opposition group that has long carried out violent operations inside Iran, and Baloch militias that operate on Iran’s southeastern border with Pakistan, are also rumored to be involved.

Last month, five Kurdish Iranian political parties came together to form the Coalition of Political Forces of Iranian Kurdistan, signaling their desire for joint political action. The five parties, all of which have military wings, have gathered thousands of their members in Iraq’s autonomous Kurdistan Region, a leader of an Iranian opposition group who has been privy to the plans told me. (He requested anonymity, like others I spoke with for this story, because of the sensitivity of the operation.)

According to this person, the operation is to be led by the Democratic Party of Iranian Kurdistan (known by its Kurdish initials PDKI), whose leader, Mustafa Hijri, spoke by phone with Donald Trump yesterday. The PDKI has deep roots among Iran’s Kurds. It’s the oldest Kurdish party and a consultative member of the Socialist International. According to the opposition leader who spoke with me, as well as the leader of one of the Kurdish groups aware of but not included in the plan, the U.S. and Israel have set aside significant funds for arms and logistical support to the five Iranian Kurdish groups. (A spokesperson for the Israel Defense Forces said the organization had “no comment on this matter.” The Pentagon did not immediately respond to a request for comment.) The Komala Party of Iranian Kurdistan, also a consultative member of the Socialist International but more left-leaning than the PDKI, joined the coalition today, becoming its sixth member party. The party had already received arms and financial support separately, my opposition source told me. Khalid Azizi, PDKI’s spokesperson, declined to comment when I reached him by phone.

I spoke with a Kurdish Iranian analyst who is normally based in the United States but has close ties to the Kurdish forces. He was about to leave for Iraq to embed with them. He told me that, to his knowledge, the militants taking part in the operation are Iranian citizens and mostly Kurds. The question of whether the MEK or the Communist Party of Iran (which has roots in Iranian Kurdistan but doesn’t have a military wing) are directly involved was not one I could settle at the time of writing; this source suggested that the Communists were but the MEK was not, but the information could not be confirmed.  

Iranian Kurdish forces have long awaited such an opportunity, Shukriya Bradost, a Kurdish Iranian security analyst based in Washington, D.C., told me. “Kurdish parties want to protect the interests of their people,” Bradost said. “They have sought to do so peacefully but, when they get no results, they try other means.”

[Missy Ryan and Nancy A. Youssef: The one variable that could decide the war]

The operation is likely to face fierce opposition from many non-Kurdish Iranians. That will be especially true if the plan involves the MEK, which was once designated by the State Department as a terrorist organization before it was delisted in 2012. The group is seen by many Iranians as a cult whose eclectic ideology, which mixes Islam and Marxism, is easily as unpalatable as the Islamic Republic’s. As for the Kurdish parties, they have substantial support in Iran’s Kurdish-majority areas, but many other Iranians fear that empowering groups whose agendas may be sectarian will lead to civil war and state collapse.

Other ethnicity-based parties may raise even more concerns. The main Baloch militia, Army of Justice (Jaish al-Adl), is jihadist and alleged to have roots in al-Qaeda. (The Balochs, like the Kurds, are mostly Sunni, making both communities part of a religious minority within a nation that is 90 percent Shiite.) The militia formed a political group called the Popular Fighters Front in December, perhaps choosing a secular-sounding name to allay outside worries. But jihadists still make up the backbone of its forces.

The fear among many Iranians and other observers is that the agendas of the ethnic militias are territorial and separatist and could lead Iran to disintegration or civil war. “Fostering an armed ethnic insurgency in Iran would be the mother of all strategic, moral, and political mistakes,” Behnam Ben Taleblu, a senior fellow at the Foundation for Defense of Democracies, told me. “This is almost guaranteed to end in a failed state.”

Anticipating such objections, Bradost claimed that the Kurdish parties “saw their future in a democratic Iran, not separation from Iran.” And most Iranian Kurdish parties indeed advocate federalism rather than independence. The Kurdistan Freedom Party (known by its Kurdish acronym, PAK) is an exception and openly seeks an independent Republic of Kurdistan. But the PAK has agreed to commit to the program set forth by the coalition, which doesn’t include separatism, Bradost told me.

Taleblu, an expert on Kurdish politics, cautioned that the appeal of these parties is “limited to their own ethnic constituencies.” But Bradost said that the Kurdish parties were open to working with most Iranian political forces—just not the Islamic Republic, which is now too weakened to be a partner, or Reza Pahlavi, the son of the late shah of Iran, who has been publicly hostile to the Kurdish parties. The Kurdish attitude toward Pahlavi will change only if the U.S. and Israel successfully pressure him to switch his position, she added.

Suspicion of a Kurdish insurgency, however, might not be so easily quelled, not only among Pahlavi’s supporters but across Iran’s political spectrum. Amir Hossein Ganjbakhsh, a pro-democracy political activist based in the United States, told me that the U.S. and Israel would “commit their biggest mistake” if they pursue this plan. “This would unite many Iranians who cherish Iran’s territorial integrity above all. It would be a recipe for civil war.” In response to the threat to Iran’s sovereignty, he said, “a large coalition of Iranians, whether they are monarchist or republican, whether they are religious or secular, would unite against these parties.”

Nesan Nodinian, the head of the Kurdistan Committee of the Worker-Communist Party of Iran, said that his party won’t oppose the others if they “liberate Kurdistan from the Islamic Republic by driving out the regime’s armed forces.” But his party has called on Kurdish civil society to “self-organize” and hopes to take part in local elections that the Kurdish parties have promised to stage if they seize Iranian territory. He also said that his party doesn’t share the hostility of much of the Iranian opposition to the MEK. “We are neither worried about them, nor optimistic, but they lack a social base,” he said. He told me he did not think Iran would descend into civil war, but rather that anti-regime Iranians would rally to the Kurds in a united struggle against the Islamic Republic.

[Read: What anti-regime Iranians can’t agree on]

That scenario may be far too optimistic. Many cities in western Iran are inhabited not just by Kurds but also by other ethnic groups, such as Azeri Turks, who could be mobilized against the Kurds, producing the sort of internecine conflict that is all too familiar in the Middle East. Brushing off such worries, Bradost claimed that Kurds and Azeris would unite over their shared non-Persian identity. But defining coalitions in terms of ethnic contrast will not inspire confidence in many other Iranians.

At the moment, the regime itself remains a formidable opponent to all of these plans. “Iran can muster up to 1 million people in military uniform,” Ganjbakhsh noted. Ali Larijani, Iran’s national security adviser, has repeatedly warned against ethnic insurgency in recent days. Iraqi Kurdish authorities, who have often collaborated with Tehran, had previously agreed to restrict Iranian Kurdish parties’ access to arms. But these restrictions were recently lifted, Nodinian told me, and yesterday, the Islamic Revolutionary Guard Corps staged attacks on bases in Iraqi Kurdistan. Today a top Iraqi Kurdish official declared that his region will “completely keep its neutrality” in the war.

Taleblu warned that the regime has “played ethnic minorities against each other for quite some time” and said that it was well equipped to “take on a local armed insurgency.”

Finally, the American president remains a wild card. Even as forces in the Iranian opposition compete for Trump’s support and attention, he periodically signals that he might yet change tack and work with remnants of the regime, as he did in Venezuela. That would presumably pull the plug on the Kurdish operation.

But the battle seems to be already on. This morning, the regime asked residents to evacuate Marivan, a Kurdish-majority city with a population of 200,000. IRGC forces dispatched 230 attack drones against targets in Iraqi Kurdistan “to fight off terrorist and separatist grouplets,” a media channel close to the force reported.

For many years, as they fought off the brutal dictatorship ruling over them, Iranians have worried that their struggle might lead to civil war and chaos. That scenario now seems closer than ever.

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Apple's "affordable" MacBook is official. The company revealed the "MacBook Neo" in a non-livestreamed event on Wednesday, following a series of product announcements throughout the week. Despite the hoopla, there aren't a ton of surprises here: The rumors pointed to a low-cost MacBook running an iPhone chip that came in a variety of fun colors to choose from. That's basically exactly what we got: The Neo runs the A18 Pro—the same chip as the iPhone 16 Pro—and comes in Blush (pink), Indigo, Citrus (yellow/green), and Silver.

Really, the biggest surprise of the day is the price: $599, or $499 if you buy through the education store (which anyone can buy from). It's a bit unbelievable that you can buy a new MacBook for as low as $500 in 2026, especially considering that computer components are only skyrocketing in price. Back in 2008, a MacBook cost $1,099, which is just shy of $1,700 in today's money. Now, you can buy three MacBook Neos for that cost, and still have money left over for accessories.

The MacBook Neo isn't perfect

If you're in the market for a new MacBook, the Neo might be particularly tempting. But it really isn't the only Mac you should consider. Despite Apple's pricey reputation, you can pick up powerful Macs for very reasonable prices these days—though not necessarily through Apple itself. The company will happily sell you a MacBook Air starting at $1,099 ($999 through the education store) which is quite a bit more than the Neo. Instead, you should consider older Macs through other stores that carry them. It might sound odd, but you really might be better off with something that didn't come out this year, or even something pre-owned.

Back when the Neo was just a rumor, I recommended not waiting for it. Sure, the colors sounded fun, and the price is great, but there are some serious drawbacks to consider here—first, and foremost, the underlying hardware. The A18 Pro is a capable chip for the iPhone 16 Pro, but it's unproven as a vehicle to run macOS. It's an Apple-designed chip, so there is an advantage there, but it still wasn't designed for Apple's OS in the same way the Mac's M-series chips were. We won't know exact performance specs until testers get their hands on the Neo, but my guess is the A18 Pro is not going to be a macOS workhouse—hence that ultra-low price.

The Neo's RAM is also holding it back. Apple is only shipping Neos with 8GB of memory, which will be fine for most simple tasks, but not more complex ones, or for multitasking. Power users who try to push the Neo will likely run into issues with trying to run too many programs (or too many browser tabs) at once. That said, Apple knows it has a lot of users relying on 8GB of RAM, since it was the entry-level standard up until M4. Plus, that lower RAM is a huge part of what's keeping the price down.

Finally, there are the nitpicky things. The keyboard, while color-matched, doesn't have a backlight, and if you're opting for the base model, you won't get Touch ID. For that, you'll need to spend another $100, though that will also double your storage (512GB instead of 256GB). There's no MagSafe, which has become a standard again on modern MacBooks, and the trackpad is mechanical rather than haptic—though that might not necessarily be better or worse.

None of these things are necessarily a deal breaker, and other MacBooks have similar issues. But that doesn't mean the Neo is right for everyone in this price range. Before you hit "preorder" on Apple's website, here are a couple other options to consider.

The M1 MacBook Air is still worth considering

The M1 MacBook Air may go down in history as the best laptop Apple ever made. Not because it's the most powerful, or the sleekest design, but because this five-year-old MacBook is still going strong. If you bought one back in 2020, you might still have one, and have no real reason to upgrade.

Apple doesn't make this Air any longer—in fact, it only makes the M5 option it announced this week. But you can still pick up the M1 from stores like Amazon and Walmart, often at wildly good prices. I'll point you to two options here, as possible Neo alternatives. One is the base model M1 Air, with 8GB of RAM and 128GB of storage. That's half the storage of the Neo, which could be a problem, but that sacrifice saves you even more money. Right now, Walmart has a pre-owned model for just over $350. That's tough to beat.

Here's an option that does beat it: On Amazon, you can buy an M1 MacBook Air with 16GB of RAM and 256GB of storage for $515. If you can find a machine like this at that price, jump on it. Even if the A18 Pro outperforms the M1 chip in testing, that 16GB of RAM will keep this machine feeling fast for longer. I strongly suggest buying a MacBook with 16GB of RAM in 2026, so if you can pick one up at this price, go for it.

The M2 MacBook Air is cheap, and a beast

In the $600 to $650 range, the M2 MacBook Air is a beast. You have Apple's second-gen M-series chip, of course, but also Apple's modern MacBook design. The company hasn't really changed the look of its MacBook Airs since the M2, which means this machine looks brand-new. It comes with a brighter and larger display over the M1 Air and MagSafe charging, too.

Again, Apple doesn't make this model anymore, so you need to look to the pre-owned and third-party markets here. You can find models with 8GB of RAM and 256GB of storage for $600, like this one on Amazon. 16GB of RAM would be ideal, but it's tough to find M2s with that configuration in this pricing right now, as it tends to push things into the $800 range. But that's the compromise at this price point: You get the modern form factor and the newer chip, while sacrificing the RAM. M2 with 8GB of RAM is probably going to outlast A18 Pro with 8GB of RAM when it comes to macOS. We'll need to wait for testing to be sure, but I'd bet on the chip made for macOS.

The MacBook Neo is probably a great buy

This isn't to say that you shouldn't consider the Neo. In fact, it might be the right Mac for you. For one, you're getting a brand new Mac—not pre-owned or refurbished—for $499, in color options the M-series Macs have never offered. There are also some perks you don't get with M1 or M2 MacBook Airs: The M1 has a 720p FaceTime camera while M2 and Neo have a 1080p lens. The MacBook Neo has support for Wi-Fi 6E and Bluetooth 6, standards both M1 and M2 don't support. If the Neo is your jam, I'm not trying to dissuade you.

Instead, I'd encourage you to wait until we know more about it. Apple opened up preorders today, but don't rush: Keep an eye out for benchmarks and real-world testing, and see how the A18 Pro compares to M1 and M2 when running macOS.

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